I think there is a
I think there is a point in one's relationship when you finally realize that things just might not work out. I am one that believes that if you love someone that you should try to talk about your differences and hopefully through communication those differences can be resolved. Well I am so tired of talking about want I need from my relationship and consequently what I am not getting out of it. Is it unrealistic, or maybe naive, for me to want a boyfriend who I can go out with and have fun; who likes to do similar activities; and maybe who even likes to hang out at the same club everyone in a while; someone who takes a proactive approach at nurturing a relationship with me—romantically as well as friends. I am by no means saying that I want someone adjoined at my hip. My autonomy is precious. However there is a level where your differences out weigh your similarities, which maybe perfectly fine for some couples. I, on the other hand need more from a boyfriend then someone who pays half the bills and provides a little love and affection. I need him to be a best friend. It's sad but I feel like my boyfriend is more of an acquaintance then a best friend.
Posted by on 09/28 at 11:25 PM
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